It doesn’t happen overnight!
The 3-3-3 rule is a general guideline to help new pet adopters understand the adjustment period their pet may go through after adoption.
Adjusting to a new environment takes time, patience and consistency;
especially animals who may have spent a long time at the shelter or with uncertain backgrounds.
3 Days
Decompression
What you might see….
- Hiding or avoiding contact
- Sleeping a lot or being restless
- Not eating or going to the bathroom
- Nervous or quiet behavior
How to help….
- Create a quiet, cozy space just for them
- Keep things calm and stick to a simple routine
- Let them explore at their own pace
- Give them space and time to come to you
- Keep introductions (to people and pets) slow and limited
3 Weeks
Adjustment
What you might see….
- Increased confidence or curiosity
- Testing the rules
- Exploring more of the home
- Starting to bond with family members
How to help….
- Set a consistent daily routine for meals, breaks and play
- Begin basic training with positive reinforcement
- Introduce new people and spaces slowly
- Correct unwanted behaviors gently and redirect positively
- Offer structure and gentle guidance
3 Months
Bonding & Routine
What you might see….
- Full personality coming through
- Comfort in the home and around people
- Stronger attachment and trust
- Following household rules and routines
How to help….
- Continue training and positive reinforcement
- Spend quality time together through play, affection and walks
- Encourage socialization and confidence-building activities
- Keep routines steady and predictable
- Provide enrichment with toys, puzzles or classes